#1: You’re just like your father. My dad passed away before I met my wife, so I don’t hear that one, but it’s not a good thing to say to your spouse. Saying “You’re just like your father” could be a real insult to your husband. What else not to say? Let’s keep it in the family: “My mother warned me you’d do this!” Not good, because you’re taking sides, and you’re taking your mother’s side, not his side, not the side of the relationship. A major negative. Before you lash out, see 8 things you should never say to your husband, HERE.